(Quoted by Thomas Carlyle) The rude man requires only to see something going on. The man of more refinement must be made to feel. The man of complete refinement must be made to reflect.

Thomas Carlyle
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`A man of complete refinement must be made to reflect’ is a phrase that captures the essence of the goal of any true gentleman. A true gentleman is one who always strives to bring out the best in others. This kind of person can recognize those qualities in other people and make those qualities the most important things in their lives. Their life is about helping others, not about them. Example: "What a great guy you are!" "Thank you, it’s nice to be recognized." Example: "I know I can count on you!" "Thanks, I appreciate it." Example: "You were so brave!" "Thanks, I had a lot of help."

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